“Hang on to your youthful enthusiasms – you’ll be able to use them better when you’re older.” – Seneca

My greatest struggle in recent years has been my mindset. Specifically, avoiding risk and seeking too much enjoyment. With age and financial success, I’ve become mentally lazy and comfortable. My life has become too safe, pleasurable, and convenient – an Uber Eats soy nightmare…and, it is terrifying!

The trap of modernity is domestication. We can have whatever we want whenever we want it, more money comes with more comfort. We become sedated like zoo animals living in a mental prison. We avoid the struggle, even though the struggle is necessary for growth.

So, here’s my note to self and recipe for growth in 2026:

1. Seek Failure
2. Seek Rejection
3. Be Vulnerable
4. Embrace Emotional Turmoil
5. Have Courage
6. Be Disciplined
7. Do Hard Things

I need a difficult life to grow, it’s the only way I can be happy.