People are naturally attracted to individuals with higher levels of Life Energy.
Most people respond to rejection with negativity and this causes them to fail to get what they want. The secret is to do the opposite, but even better than positivity is to be calm and energetically unfazed.
For example, if someone insults you, the instinctual response is to become guarded and triggered, but this actually lowers your energetic state because you’re being dragged down if you choose to accept the insult by fighting back. The alchemy of transmuting the insult is to not even respond in most cases, this causes the person who insulted you to become insecure and aware that your energetic state is stronger.
Human beings naturally respect strength and higher energetic states because they signal stability, competence, and emotional regulation—qualities the nervous system instinctively associates with safety, leadership, and survival. Another way to put this is that people are attracted to strength and higher energetic states because it helps them survive.
